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Sunan Abu Dawud 2082 (Book 12, Hadith 37) — Marriage and Relationships

Narrated by Jabir ibn Abdullah (رضي الله عنهما) • Grade: Hasan (Al-Albani (Hasan); Muhammad Muhyi Al-Din Abdul Hamid (Hasan); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Hasan); Zubair Ali Zai (Hasan))

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#114 • Sunan Abu Dawud 2082 (Book 12, Hadith 37)Sunan Abu DawudMarriage and Relationships
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Jabir ibn Abdullah (رضي الله عنهما)

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah

Book & Reference: Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah) (Book 12, Hadith 37)
Scholarly Grading Source: Al-Albani (Hasan); Muhammad Muhyi Al-Din Abdul Hamid (Hasan); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Hasan); Zubair Ali Zai (Hasan)

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ بْنُ زِيَادٍ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ دَاوُدَ بْنِ حُصَيْنٍ، عَنْ وَاقِدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ سَعْدِ بْنِ مُعَاذٍ - عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ إِذَا خَطَبَ أَحَدُكُمُ الْمَرْأَةَ فَإِنِ اسْتَطَاعَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَى مَا يَدْعُوهُ إِلَى نِكَاحِهَا فَلْيَفْعَلْ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ فَخَطَبْتُ جَارِيَةً فَكُنْتُ أَتَخَبَّأُ لَهَا حَتَّى رَأَيْتُ مِنْهَا مَا دَعَانِي إِلَى نِكَاحِهَا وَتَزَوُّجِهَا فَتَزَوَّجْتُهَا ‏.‏

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: When one of you asked a woman in marriage, if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, he should do so. He (Jabir) said: I asked a girl in marriage, I used to look at her secretly, until I looked at what induced me to marry her. I, therefore, married her

— Prof. Ahmad Hasan / Nasiruddin al-Khattab (Sunan Abu Dawud)

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IslamTools Editorial Study Notes (Distinct from Prophetic Text)Marriage and Relationships

Main Lesson & Core Meaning

The best of believers are those who are best to their families, and prioritizing religion and character in marriage leads to lasting blessing.

Practical Daily Application

Prioritize piety and good character when choosing a spouse, treat your partner with gentleness and gratitude, and overlook minor faults with patience.

Key Islamic Terms & Vocabulary

Nikah (النكاح)

The blessed marital covenant established upon mutual consent, Mahr, and responsibility.

Mu'asharah bil-Ma'ruf (المعاشرة بالمعروف)

Living together in kindness, fairness, and mutual respect.

Mawaddah wa Rahmah (مودة ورحمة)

Cordial love and compassionate mercy placed by Allah between spouses.

Scholarly Context & Jurisprudence Note

The Sunnah portrays marriage not merely as a legal contract, but as a spiritual partnership of mutual support in obedience to Allah.

Educational Note: This library is for Islamic study and education. Applying Hadith to complex personal legal matters (Fiqh) requires qualified scholarly guidance.

Noble Companion & Hadith Transmitterرضي الله عنهما

جابر بن عبد الله بن عمرو الأنصاري السلمي

Jabir ibn Abdullah (Jabir ibn 'Abdullah al-Ansari)

One of the six most prolific Companion narrators of Hadith (Al-Muksirun). An Ansari Companion who witnessed the Second Pledge of 'Aqabah with his father and participated in nineteen expeditions alongside the Prophet ﷺ, famous for transmitting the comprehensive Hadith of the Prophet's Farewell Pilgrimage.

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Collection: Sunan Abu Dawud (Sunan Abu Dawud 2082 (Book 12, Hadith 37))
Scholarly Grading Source: Al-Albani (Hasan); Muhammad Muhyi Al-Din Abdul Hamid (Hasan); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Hasan); Zubair Ali Zai (Hasan)
Al-Albani: HasanMuhammad Muhyi Al-Din Abdul Hamid: HasanShuaib Al Arnaut: HasanZubair Ali Zai: Hasan
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— Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Sahih al-Bukhari English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Imam Muhammad ibn Isma'il al-Bukhari (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus)
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— Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Sahih al-Bukhari English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Imam Muhammad ibn Isma'il al-Bukhari (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus)
Full Reference & Explanation
Primary Companion Narrator:Umm Salamah (رضي الله عنها)
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حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ، عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ هُرْمُزَ الأَعْرَجِ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، أَنَّ زَيْنَبَ ابْنَةَ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ عَنْ أُمِّهَا أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ، زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَنَّ امْرَأَةً مِنْ أَسْلَمَ يُقَالُ لَهَا سُبَيْعَةُ كَانَتْ تَحْتَ زَوْجِهَا، تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا وَهْىَ حُبْلَى، فَخَطَبَهَا أَبُو السَّنَابِلِ بْنُ بَعْكَكٍ، فَأَبَتْ أَنْ تَنْكِحَهُ، فَقَالَ وَاللَّهِ مَا يَصْلُحُ أَنْ تَنْكِحِيهِ حَتَّى تَعْتَدِّي آخِرَ الأَجَلَيْنِ‏.‏ فَمَكُثَتْ قَرِيبًا مِنْ عَشْرِ لَيَالٍ ثُمَّ جَاءَتِ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ ‏ "‏ انْكِحِي ‏"‏‏.‏

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— Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Sahih al-Bukhari English Translation)

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