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Sahih al-Bukhari 5999 (Book 78, Hadith 30) — Children and Parenting

Narrated by Umar ibn al-Khattab (رضي الله عنه) • Grade: Sahih (Imam Muhammad ibn Isma'il al-Bukhari (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus))

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#94 • Sahih al-Bukhari 5999 (Book 78, Hadith 30)Sahih al-BukhariChildren and Parenting
Sahih (Authentic)
Primary Companion Narrator
Umar ibn al-Khattab (رضي الله عنه)

Narrated `Umar bin Al-Khattab

Book & Reference: Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab) (Book 78, Hadith 30)
Scholarly Grading Source: Imam Muhammad ibn Isma'il al-Bukhari (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus)

حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو غَسَّانَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي زَيْدُ بْنُ أَسْلَمَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ قَدِمَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم سَبْىٌ، فَإِذَا امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ السَّبْىِ قَدْ تَحْلُبُ ثَدْيَهَا تَسْقِي، إِذَا وَجَدَتْ صَبِيًّا فِي السَّبْىِ أَخَذَتْهُ فَأَلْصَقَتْهُ بِبَطْنِهَا وَأَرْضَعَتْهُ، فَقَالَ لَنَا النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ أَتَرَوْنَ هَذِهِ طَارِحَةً وَلَدَهَا فِي النَّارِ ‏"‏‏.‏ قُلْنَا لاَ وَهْىَ تَقْدِرُ عَلَى أَنْ لاَ تَطْرَحَهُ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ اللَّهُ أَرْحَمُ بِعِبَادِهِ مِنْ هَذِهِ بِوَلَدِهَا ‏"‏‏.‏

Narrated `Umar bin Al-Khattab:Some Sabi (i.e. war prisoners, children and woman only) were brought before the Prophet (ﷺ) and behold, a woman amongst them was milking her breasts to feed and whenever she found a child amongst the captives, she took it over her chest and nursed it (she had lost her child but later she found him) the Prophet said to us, "Do you think that this lady can throw her son in the fire?" We replied, "No, if she has the power not to throw it (in the fire)." The Prophet (ﷺ) then said, "Allah is more merciful to His slaves than this lady to her son

— Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Sahih al-Bukhari English Translation)

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IslamTools Editorial Study Notes (Distinct from Prophetic Text)Children and Parenting

Main Lesson & Core Meaning

Every parent is a shepherd responsible for their flock; raising children with love, fairness, and righteous manners is an ongoing charity (Sadaqah Jariyah).

Practical Daily Application

Show visible affection and mercy to children, treat sons and daughters with complete fairness, and teach them prayer and good character gently.

Key Islamic Terms & Vocabulary

Tarbiyah (التربية)

Nurturing children spiritually, morally, and intellectually.

'Adl (العدل)

Strict fairness and equity among children in gifts and treatment.

Ra'iyyah (الرعية)

Those entrusted to one's care and responsibility before Allah.

Scholarly Context & Jurisprudence Note

The Prophet ﷺ transformed societal attitudes by honoring daughters as a shield from the Fire and openly kissing and comforting young children.

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Noble Companion & Hadith Transmitterرضي الله عنه

أمير المؤمنين عمر بن الخطاب الفاروق

Umar ibn al-Khattab ('Umar ibn al-Khattab al-Faruq)

The Second Rightly Guided Caliph (Amir al-Mu'minin), titled Al-Faruq (The Criterion between truth and falsehood), and one of the Ten Promised Paradise. He narrated foundational Hadiths of Islam, including the famous Hadith of Intentions and the Hadith of Jibril.

Source Verification & Scholarly Audit Record

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Collection: Sahih al-Bukhari (Sahih al-Bukhari 5999 (Book 78, Hadith 30))
Scholarly Grading Source: Imam Muhammad ibn Isma'il al-Bukhari (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus)
Imam al-Bukhari: Sahih
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— Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Sahih al-Bukhari English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Imam Muhammad ibn Isma'il al-Bukhari (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus)
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— Abdul Hamid Siddiqui (Sahih Muslim English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Imam Muslim ibn al-Hajjaj (Ijma' / Scholarly Consensus)
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— Prof. Ahmad Hasan / Nasiruddin al-Khattab (Sunan Abu Dawud)

Scholarly Grading Source: Al-Albani (Sahih); Muhammad Muhyi Al-Din Abdul Hamid (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Isnaad Sahih)
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